That’s why we’re shining a light on a long-standing tradition in one of our homes, to offer a glimpse into the culture and care that shape daily life.
At Deanston Care Home, Fridays aren’t just the end of the week, they’re something to celebrate. For years now, every Friday afternoon has been marked by a tradition that brings residents, staff, and the wider home together for an afternoon of connection, fun, and familiar comforts.
The weekly Friday party kicks off in the beautiful front lounge of Deanston’s converted sandstone townhouse. It starts with music and the opening of the mobile bar, where residents can request their favourite drinks, be it a soft drink or something a little stronger! From there, residents and staff put on their dancing shoes and join in the fun, singing and dancing together, whether up on their feet or from the comfort of their chairs, as they celebrate the start of the weekend in true Deanston style.
Later in the evening, everyone gathers for a proper chippy tea, served fresh and hot. It's a simple tradition, but one that means a lot to the people who call Deanston home. As one resident put it:
“It’s been a tradition for as long as I’ve been here, and I hope it remains so for many years to come.”
The entertainment may shift with the seasons - some weeks might feature a visiting musician, or others a performance from a local group - but the sense of community and connection is ever present. Even residents who may not usually join in with daily activities or outings are often drawn out by the relaxed, social nature of the Fridays. It’s a time for everyone to be together, regardless of ability or background.
“I’ve only been here a few months, but Fridays are already my favourite day. It’s something we all look forward to,” said another resident.
These gatherings promote more than just good fun, they offer social interaction, mental stimulation, and a sense of belonging, all essential elements of high-quality care. For many, the music and shared meals spark memories and provide comfort. For those living with dementia, familiar sounds and routines like this can be grounding and uplifting.
Families are also welcomed into the Friday celebrations, and many pop in to join for a drink, a song, or simply to enjoy the atmosphere with their loved ones. Their presence adds even more warmth and connection to the afternoon.
As one staff member said:
“This is our residents’ home. We want them to continue enjoying the things they’ve always loved. If that includes a tipple on a Friday and a bit of a singalong, that’s exactly what we’ll do.”
Staff also benefit from the Friday tradition, with a takeaway of choice ‘on the house’ to enjoy during their break. It’s a simple but meaningful way for management to show appreciation and maintain team morale. A happy, supported team means better care, and Fridays remind everyone they’re part of something special.
Of course, behind every celebration is the dedicated care and attention of our team, ensuring residents feel safe, supported, and respected at all times. At Deanston, we believe meaningful moments, shared meals, music, conversation, are just as important as physical care.
We look forward to celebrating all the Fridays still to come. And if you ever visit on a Friday, don’t be surprised if you’re handed a cuppa or asked to join in on the chorus.